Jeffy: Religion And Dating
There was a post on the forum today: "Additionally, the concept of sex before marriage is highly frowned upon."
By whom? I'm assuming this means by YOU yourself, even though you don't say it. You may not even realize it.
If the idea of "promiscuous sex" is something totally against your value system, then you're not doing yourself any favors by attempting to have it. It will only cause you grief.
Don't get into this stuff because you THINK you should, or because the media says you gotta be a pimp or whatever. Get into it because you WANT to and in a way that is not at odds with your core values.
I'm celibate for non-religious reasons. Nonetheless, I don't consider makeouts and blowjobs "sex," so there's still fun to be had! Huzzah!
Also, ALReturnsLMAO said:
"For religious reasons I don't plan on banging alot of girls, but the game goes beyond that. Its about improving your life and giving you more confidence."
This is true, and in reality I'd take it even further: game is about being a positive force, about improving OTHERS' lives and giving THEM more confidence.
*I* have confidence and value to spare, so I take this **** to the next level and pass it around. This is what "giving value" is all about.
Really, that's the only thing I'm consciously thinking when going into set these days. "Give value." Well, that and "None of this matters."
This frame of giving value, even if that means you don't get laid, is the key to inner game mastery. Done correctly it sets off a chain reaction that gets your inner game spiraling upwards off the charts.
In many ways, your abstinence is a blessing because it removes the pressure. There is no outcome dependence, so you're free to express yourself congruently and in an unreactive way.
Jeffy
By whom? I'm assuming this means by YOU yourself, even though you don't say it. You may not even realize it.
If the idea of "promiscuous sex" is something totally against your value system, then you're not doing yourself any favors by attempting to have it. It will only cause you grief.
Don't get into this stuff because you THINK you should, or because the media says you gotta be a pimp or whatever. Get into it because you WANT to and in a way that is not at odds with your core values.
I'm celibate for non-religious reasons. Nonetheless, I don't consider makeouts and blowjobs "sex," so there's still fun to be had! Huzzah!
Also, ALReturnsLMAO said:
"For religious reasons I don't plan on banging alot of girls, but the game goes beyond that. Its about improving your life and giving you more confidence."
This is true, and in reality I'd take it even further: game is about being a positive force, about improving OTHERS' lives and giving THEM more confidence.
*I* have confidence and value to spare, so I take this **** to the next level and pass it around. This is what "giving value" is all about.
Really, that's the only thing I'm consciously thinking when going into set these days. "Give value." Well, that and "None of this matters."
This frame of giving value, even if that means you don't get laid, is the key to inner game mastery. Done correctly it sets off a chain reaction that gets your inner game spiraling upwards off the charts.
In many ways, your abstinence is a blessing because it removes the pressure. There is no outcome dependence, so you're free to express yourself congruently and in an unreactive way.
Jeffy
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