MIKE: Escalating Too Quickly
If you don't want the set to escalate that quickly, then don't allow it to.
Remember you have full control in regards to how your sets run. You shouldn't have closed space so quickly and sparked that level of tension yet.
Bear in mind that all those quick escalation maneuvers I taught you over your bootcamp are intended to pull a girl within a 3 to 10 minute timeframe after having met her in the club. If you try and drag it out longer than that, you run the risk of having what happened to you occurring every time.
All you need to do is slow down in set and you'll be fine. It's funny that when people experience the sudden success that you've been recently having in terms of quick makeouts and quick lays, you start to think that's all you know how to do.
You have an arsenal of tools--the quick escalation tactics are only a part of them. For good reason, your focus has been on quick one night stands and not much else. Now I'm willing to bet it's not that you don't know how to run longer sets, it's that you haven't paid much attention to them.
Mike
Remember you have full control in regards to how your sets run. You shouldn't have closed space so quickly and sparked that level of tension yet.
Bear in mind that all those quick escalation maneuvers I taught you over your bootcamp are intended to pull a girl within a 3 to 10 minute timeframe after having met her in the club. If you try and drag it out longer than that, you run the risk of having what happened to you occurring every time.
All you need to do is slow down in set and you'll be fine. It's funny that when people experience the sudden success that you've been recently having in terms of quick makeouts and quick lays, you start to think that's all you know how to do.
You have an arsenal of tools--the quick escalation tactics are only a part of them. For good reason, your focus has been on quick one night stands and not much else. Now I'm willing to bet it's not that you don't know how to run longer sets, it's that you haven't paid much attention to them.
Mike
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