MIKE: Pulling From Clubs
These types of situations are easy as long as you hold FULL control, and that's where most guys make the mistake.
However, if you have full control, frame the pull as an issue of scarcity. If she feels that this is one-time experience, the thrill and excitement of leaving with you will trump any feeling of anti-slut defense and what her friends may think.
It comes down to how you set the frame in your own mind. Remember it is YOUR frame.
So you view telling the girl "this is your only chance" as something that comes across as needy because you're using that to persuade her. So you're right, if YOU were to say that, it would be needy.
However, if I say that, it would NEVER be needy. Because my frame actually carries the belief that this is her only chance. I know that if I tell her that, it's because if shit doesn't go down right now, she's done.
And that is precisely why anytime I'm in this situation, shit WILL go down. Every time.
Mike
However, if you have full control, frame the pull as an issue of scarcity. If she feels that this is one-time experience, the thrill and excitement of leaving with you will trump any feeling of anti-slut defense and what her friends may think.
It comes down to how you set the frame in your own mind. Remember it is YOUR frame.
So you view telling the girl "this is your only chance" as something that comes across as needy because you're using that to persuade her. So you're right, if YOU were to say that, it would be needy.
However, if I say that, it would NEVER be needy. Because my frame actually carries the belief that this is her only chance. I know that if I tell her that, it's because if shit doesn't go down right now, she's done.
And that is precisely why anytime I'm in this situation, shit WILL go down. Every time.
Mike
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