MIKE: Teasing Going Overboard

There is a fine line with teasing between being right on point with it and going a little overboard and getting those negative reactions.

Unfortunately, where that line lies is different for everyone. It has to do with how well your teases relate to your identity.

First of all, start with only using the teases that you feel most congruent with. Then play around with them in your sets. What will end up happening is that sometimes you won't push the tease far enough, and sometimes you'll push it overboard.

The key is realizing that it is okay for you to go overboard, as long as you LEARN from every situation in which that happens.

If your desire is to figure out your fine line on your own, you will need those experiences of coming up short as well as going too far to find that perfect medium.


Mike