TODD: Real Compliments And Disqualifiers

I use REAL disqualifiers. And I use REAL compliments. I genuinely get to know the girl and I genuinely tell her what I like and do not like.

HOWEVER: I DO change my decision on whether to disqualify or whether to compliment based on where the girl is at emotionally.

If she can take it, I qualify/disqualify a bit more because it creates sexual tension which heightens the emotional experience for both of us.

If she needs comfort (needs to feel safe/good about herself etc.) then I'm more likely to give her a compliment because in that case a compliment is what will create the best vibe and most positive experience for both of us.

For example I LOVE girls who play soccer...so if a girl said:

"I played soccer when I was younger but I quit in high school."

So to a hot girl I'd probably say:

"Wow... It's too bad you don't still play, I love girls I can just go kick around with."

Whereas with a less attractive/confident girl I'd probably say:

"That's awesome... I love soccer girls... girls I can just go to the park and kick around with"

In both cases I'm communicating my values and desires, and showing them how to "win me over" but with the hot girl I do it like I'm slightly disappointed she's not "perfect" so she can work for me whereas with the less hot/confident girl I do it in such a way as to make her feel as good about herself as possible.


Todd